Tables for Character
by Kym on February 17, 2011
Today’s post is from my friend, Cintia. I love how God brings people together to grow us for His glory! Cintia blogs about her life and faith, and has written an ebook, “Tweeting with God”. I am blessed to call her friend!
By Cintia Listenbee
The first time I had to wait tables I was in Brazil at a youth conference. I was part of the leadership and also running to be the president of that organization. I usually would sing or do something else more visible but for some reason the leadership decided I needed to work serving tables. My friends told me it was a strategy so I wouldn’t have a lot of visibility prior to the election. My father reminded me of
Stephen. He told me God was able to use him while serving tables and God could do the same thing for me. I ended up winning that election and others in the youth organization.
Serving tables as a teenager taught me to enjoy the special places God allows me to serve. God can only take me higher.
The second time I had to wait tables was in college. To top my table waiting experience, I stayed in town for the summer so I waited tables after hundreds of summer campers. One afternoon everyone managed to disappear and I was left with a whole dinning room of dirty tables. I remember surveying the situation and doing the best cleaning job ever. Months later an older gentlemen reminded me of how he watched my work ethic and that it was good. He said I was always on time, worked hard and never complained. Serving tables as a young woman taught me people are watching, even when you are doing what most would consider to be menial tasks. They are watching and learning your character.
Lately I’ve been waiting tables in my own home. My two kids are learning how to eat by themselves so cleaning is a constant part of life. Milk, cereal and rice is often found all around the table and I clean it all, every time. Serving tables as a mother of two under two has taught me that it may not look like it but there are higher purposes in my cleaning. Mary, the mother of Jesus had to clean after Him. The same goes for others I look up to such my grandmothers. I’m sure that if they could talk to me they would say it was worth it. You just have to look at the result of their serving.
Acts 6:1-7 talks about the story of seven men who were given a task many would consider menial but they took it with joy. They served tables and as a result, the word of God and the number of disciples multiplied. One of these men was Stephen, described as full of faith and the Holy Spirit. Stephen had a short but impactfull ministry. I’m glad he didn’t consider waiting tables beneath him but he served with joy and in the power of the Holy Spirit.
I’m not sure where God has you waiting tables today. Remember God can take you higher, your character is being developed and people are being developed through your serving.
• Have ever had to serve tables before? Please share the lessons learned.
Cintia Listenbee is a journalist who blogs at www.simplycintia.com Her new eBook is called “Tweeting with God.” http://www.simplycintia.com/p/ebook.html